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« on: October 27, 2013, 06:11:50 PM »

I am back after a period of absence.  I thank you, first of all, for any prayers you offered for me while I was gone.

Now to the topic:

My husband left me about 10 weeks ago, with no notice, and took all the kids.  By the time I saw the oldest ones again, they were so mad at me that they will still not talk to me.

The youngest 2 are with me now.  Both of them pray daily to become saints! (BTW - I can take no credit for that - they pray for that on their own!  I didn't teach them to pray for that!)

He has now filed for divorce, after 16 yrs.  He does not seem to be interested at all in a reconciliation.  He is also trying to say I am mentally ill and asking for SOLE custody of all the kids.  My family helped me retain a lawyer, who I don't think has been very good.  I am looking for a job, but have no money as I have been a stay at home mom for 15 yrs now.  He pays the house note and utilities, no grocery or gas money.

Right now, I don't have a dime to my name.

The irony of it all is all of this happened the week after I prayed that God would purify me no matter the cost.  Somehow, God is allowing all of this to happen for a purpose that I do not understand & maybe never will.

I am struggling with looking at my husband's flaws instead of my own.  I am trying to focus on what I need to do to go forward and how God is asking me to change & grow instead of focusing on him.  When I focus on my husband and what he did, I tend to be bitter and angry....which I can't believe is what God wants for me.

I am struggling to forgive him and to not shut down emotionally.

I am trying to remain strong for the children who are with me and to keep them out of it as much as possible.  I need to pray for the oldest ones to turn their hearts toward me again - they are very angry with me for some reason.  I really don't understand it.

Pray for my husband and my children.

Pray that I will listen for the Lord and do His will in all things.

Thanks.
 
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« Reply #1 on: October 27, 2013, 08:36:10 PM »


Pater noster, qui es in cælis, sanctificetur nomen tuum; adveniat regnum tuum; fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra. Panem nostrum cotidianum da nobis hodie, et dimitte nobis debita nostra, sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris; et ne nos inducas in tentationem Sed libera nos a malo. Amen

Ave Maria, gratia plena, Dominus tecum. Benedicta tu in mulieribus, et benedictus fructus ventris tui, Jesus. Sancta Maria, Mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus, nunc et in hora mortis nostrae. Amen.

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« Reply #2 on: October 27, 2013, 09:53:02 PM »

Pater noster, qui es in cælis, sanctificetur nomen tuum; adveniat regnum tuum; fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra. Panem nostrum cotidianum da nobis hodie, et dimitte nobis debita nostra, sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris; et ne nos inducas in tentationem Sed libera nos a malo. Amen

Ave Maria, gratia plena, Dominus tecum. Benedicta tu in mulieribus, et benedictus fructus ventris tui, Jesus. Sancta Maria, Mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus, nunc et in hora mortis nostrae. Amen.

Prayers and more prayers JoyfulMother!

Trust in God however hard it is!!!
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« Reply #3 on: October 27, 2013, 10:09:35 PM »

Sacred Heart of Jesus have mercy
Sacred Heart of Jesus please hear our prayers

Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou amongst women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary Mother of God pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death
Amen
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« Reply #4 on: October 28, 2013, 12:53:54 PM »

I just said a prayer for your intention.  God bless you.  Persevere!
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« Reply #5 on: October 28, 2013, 02:07:55 PM »


Pater noster, qui es in cælis, sanctificetur nomen tuum; adveniat regnum tuum; fiat voluntas tua, sicut in caelo et in terra. Panem nostrum cotidianum da nobis hodie, et dimitte nobis debita nostra, sicut et nos dimittimus debitoribus nostris; et ne nos inducas in tentationem Sed libera nos a malo. Amen

Ave Maria, gratia plena, Dominus tecum. Benedicta tu in mulieribus, et benedictus fructus ventris tui, Jesus. Sancta Maria, Mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus, nunc et in hora mortis nostrae. Amen.


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« Reply #6 on: October 28, 2013, 07:15:00 PM »

Our Father...
Hail Mary...
Glory be...
Amen.
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« Reply #7 on: October 31, 2013, 12:15:29 AM »

Sacred Heart of Jesus have mercy
Sacred Heart of Jesus please hear our prayers

Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou amongst women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary Mother of God pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death
Amen
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« Reply #8 on: October 31, 2013, 02:58:34 PM »

Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou amongst women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary Mother of God pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death
Amen
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« Reply #9 on: October 31, 2013, 03:18:57 PM »

Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou amongst women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary Mother of God pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death
Amen
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« Reply #10 on: October 31, 2013, 05:19:01 PM »

Our Father....
Hail Mary....
Glory Be.....

Amen.

Thanks for all the prayers. 
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« Reply #11 on: October 31, 2013, 07:56:56 PM »

I just said a prayer for you.  God bless you.
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« Reply #12 on: November 03, 2013, 05:05:56 AM »

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« Reply #13 on: November 04, 2013, 07:48:13 AM »

Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou amongst women
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary Mother of God pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death
Amen
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« Reply #14 on: November 04, 2013, 12:02:52 PM »

Our Father, Who art in Heaven,
hallowed be Thy name;
Thy Kingdom come,
Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
Amen!
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« Reply #15 on: November 10, 2013, 10:38:47 PM »

Sacred Heart of Jesus have mercy
Sacred Heart of Jesus please hear our prayers
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